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The only thing that worked for me was moving. Partly because I’m not what Berkeley women are looking for. Partly because I had so much baggage there... the bit about “gaslighting” is accurate. Leaving let me reset.

Even a similar city like Portland was a massive improvement for me. Other countries were a bigger bump, as you’d expect, but even another heavily liberal city in the US was 5-10 times better for me.

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