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> Diane Yap: I know this guy, SWE manager at a big tech company, Princeton grad. Recently broke up with a long term gf. His idea on how to get back in the dating market? Go to the gym and build more muscles. Sigh. I gave him a pep talk and convinced him that the girls for which that would make a difference aren't worth his time anyway.

Reminder that if you are a man, never take dating advice from a woman.

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Regarding the vegetables thing, I do blame Anglos' retarded food culture for the fact that you + Aella etc. don't like veg. In countries with a healthy food culture, vegetables are just an integral part of nice food - curries, spicy hot pots, tasty soups etc. In Anglo food culture, it's mostly if you want a "healthy option", more commonly eaten as salads or joyless boiled green things on the side.

So I think you're missing out if you can't appreciate veg. Even if you think there's something superficially unpleasant about eating veg, to misquote Zvi from two weeks ago, "the failure to experience the sublime in things that people traditionally think are not [delicious] is a Skill Issue",

But, as a big veg lover myself, I'm not actually sure whether it's healthier or not to eat loads of veg. I like liking vegetables, because I like eating (both the social and hedonic aspect), and veg bulks up a meal and extends eating time by 2x or 3x. This probably means I eat slightly less healthily for some meals, because add more fatty/salty sauce to cover the veg appropriately etc. But I'm reasonably effortlessly slim and fit, so take as you will.

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